how we unintentionally screw up our precious little babies

comment on a post “Babies cry because they need you. Understand that they just got here, are defenseless, and bonding. Self-sufficiency should be experienced and taught when they can understand. Right now, they won’t understand why you don’t show up. So…what’s the point? You likely aren’t conditioning anything positive.”

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I Am A Woman Worth Marrying

I am a woman worth marrying.
A woman worth hanging out with for the next 50-60 years. A woman worth holding his hand on his deathbead. A woman worth holding, on mine, should I be the first to go.

I am a woman worth marrying.
I need to be with someone who sees my worth, and my relationship potential, and wants to explore if our paradigms can hang. And I need to see the same with him.

I am a woman worth marrying.
I’ve seen myself in this light for barely a week, but I know it deep in my bones.

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Facebook Banned Me … for this?

It’s easy to notice everything that is going wrong. But the mere fact that you are typing “everything wrong” means there’s a SHIT-TON of things going right.

It’s a simple matter of changing the lense to give yourself a break.

Your brain is a really smart internet search engine and it really Really REALLY wants to please you. If you ask it “what’s going wrong?” it will diligently run off and find everything going wrong and report back ASAP.

When you first ask it “what’s going right?” there will sometimes be a knee-jerk “nothing!” response because it’s still working on the previous search. What to do, oh what to do?!

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